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13. Reasons Why You Are Failing At Life

May 31, 2023 Spiritual Bimbo Season 1 Episode 13
13. Reasons Why You Are Failing At Life
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Esoteric N Chill
13. Reasons Why You Are Failing At Life
May 31, 2023 Season 1 Episode 13
Spiritual Bimbo

Want to know why you are failing at life? Seriously… do you ever wonder why some people end up living a dream life while others just keep struggling without getting anywhere? In this episode of Esoteric N Chill, your favorite spiritual bimbo is here to give you some insight.

After watching an interview with multi-millionaire investor Alex Hormozi, I was inspired to share the strategies that I’ve used (and continue to use) to generate my own wealth and happiness.

You’ll hear me talk about some of the most common barriers to becoming successful, why they’re so ingrained in us, and what you can do to overcome them. Basically, I want all of you to WIN, because you truly deserve to live an abundant life.

So go ahead and take a listen! And consider this the first step towards changing your mindset for the better.

“Life can really be even more amazing than we fucking imagine. Infinite possibilities, infinnite fucking abundance – the sky’s the fucking limit” -Isabella James

Timestamps
0: 00 - Intro
4:04 - Why we get in our own way
7:12 - Fearing what people think
11:10 - Think you’re not good enough?
14:30 - Learn how to allocate your time
18:46 - Change your environment
20:59 - Gamify everything
22:07 - How to not fall victim to your own thoughts
23:16 - Learn to reframe your reality

Links Mentioned
👉
Check out the Alex Hormozi interview here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JuNOFW-oVn8&ab_channel=ChrisWilliamson

👉 Barbie Goes to Bali:
https://esotericnchill.buzzsprout.com/2126470/12582761-6-barbie-goes-to-bali

Connect with Isabella James
1.    Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/esotericnchill/
2.    Ineedbella.com all my socials
3.    Onlybella.com Free OF


Show Notes Transcript

Want to know why you are failing at life? Seriously… do you ever wonder why some people end up living a dream life while others just keep struggling without getting anywhere? In this episode of Esoteric N Chill, your favorite spiritual bimbo is here to give you some insight.

After watching an interview with multi-millionaire investor Alex Hormozi, I was inspired to share the strategies that I’ve used (and continue to use) to generate my own wealth and happiness.

You’ll hear me talk about some of the most common barriers to becoming successful, why they’re so ingrained in us, and what you can do to overcome them. Basically, I want all of you to WIN, because you truly deserve to live an abundant life.

So go ahead and take a listen! And consider this the first step towards changing your mindset for the better.

“Life can really be even more amazing than we fucking imagine. Infinite possibilities, infinnite fucking abundance – the sky’s the fucking limit” -Isabella James

Timestamps
0: 00 - Intro
4:04 - Why we get in our own way
7:12 - Fearing what people think
11:10 - Think you’re not good enough?
14:30 - Learn how to allocate your time
18:46 - Change your environment
20:59 - Gamify everything
22:07 - How to not fall victim to your own thoughts
23:16 - Learn to reframe your reality

Links Mentioned
👉
Check out the Alex Hormozi interview here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JuNOFW-oVn8&ab_channel=ChrisWilliamson

👉 Barbie Goes to Bali:
https://esotericnchill.buzzsprout.com/2126470/12582761-6-barbie-goes-to-bali

Connect with Isabella James
1.    Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/esotericnchill/
2.    Ineedbella.com all my socials
3.    Onlybella.com Free OF


00:00:00:01 - 00:00:38:15
ISABELLA
Come back to esoteric and show where we talk about spirituality, self-development, the adult industry, health, wealth and happiness. Enjoy the show. I'm your girl, Isabella James. Let's make sure the titties are in. Hello. Welcome back to the podcast. Here are the fuck we are on individually watching on YouTube. Hey, I love you. On the mind this huge scratch gash injury on my titty cat things, you know, I was like, I don't think anyone's going to think that I got like stab because obviously the titty wouldve been popped so.

00:00:39:08 - 00:01:07:12
ISABELLA
We didnt im today where we tried to help with this fucking juice I like juicing the day I might eat dinner tho. I don't know. I've been jucing Oh wow, this is really fucking annoying. Okay, we open that. We're in business. Get your green juice, get your water, get whatever the fuck you're drinking and let's have a show.

00:01:08:00 - 00:01:40:16
ISABELLA
So today we're talking about why you're not successful. This podcast is going to be based on my personal experiences, of course, but also a really cool interview podcast that I watched recently with Alex Hermosa, who I think is a Oh, what did I say? I was like half a shitty person, half genius. But he literally in this podcast says, You like, you know why?

00:01:40:17 - 00:01:55:20
ISABELLA
Like when I was younger, I realized that or I thought, I think people I saw things as he's like, I'm not that good of a person, but I knew that I could do the things I needed to do and still be successful even if I didn't deserve it. I like I can't hate him because he's a real one, you know what I mean?

00:01:56:03 - 00:02:24:20
ISABELLA
So here we are. I remember the podcast or yeah, the podcast is actually I'll linger below because I'm a real on I don't gate keep shit, so if you want to hear from him, $100 million portfolio or whatever, shit me, a multimillionaire CEO Onlyfans creator fucking coach crypto queen, woman of many trades and many more to come. Here's what I learned.

00:02:26:00 - 00:02:53:14
ISABELLA
Like keeps a lot of people from success. And one of the quotes. But he says, I don't know if I've actually said it, but they talk about on there is that so? It's so easy to be successful these days because everyone is weak and that's such a powerful statement. And the only way it's going to really trigger you is if you're weak yourself you know, because like in reality, you with our fucking phones

00:02:53:14 - 00:03:21:03
ISABELLA
Are you kidding me? We literally have access to any piece of information, anything we want to do. And people are still just sitting around, like wallowing. And I was like, in pity. So this triggers you do better and I'm skinny, that's super toxic. But here does like some different things that I've learned. Like I said, I took some some direction from Mr. Hermosa as well.

00:03:21:10 - 00:03:43:21
ISABELLA
But this is the thing, you know, I've been like very open about who I am, where I've come from and all of that. And I do that because I want people to be inspired. I want people to realize like, hey, like I literally used to work every day to put a roof over my head. Like, I literally, like if I didn't work, I would have not a place to stay type of thing for like six months to be honest with you.

00:03:44:08 - 00:04:02:08
ISABELLA
And, you know, going to where I am today, which is very successful and more important than the fucking money guy, like I literally completely transformed my mindset. I really just transform my life. So that's why I'm so transparent. I'm not like, Oh, look at me. Oh my God, I'm doing so well. Like, no, like, it's literally not that at all.

00:04:02:08 - 00:04:26:14
ISABELLA
It's like all inspiration because I really just want everybody to fucking want. I want everyone to be the best version of themselves. So let's get into it, okay? Why? You're feeling getting in your own way. This is definitely the biggest problem with people, and this is something that I still face myself, but it's like cultivating that awareness that we are, you know, able to rework, rewire the patterns.

00:04:26:20 - 00:04:48:18
ISABELLA
So a lot of times we like block our own blessings that we really just like get in our own ways because of like feelings of unworthiness or just not trust within ourselves, within the situation. But a lot of the times it's because we are reacting from the past situations, from past versions of ourselves, and we're not responding to the present moment.

00:04:49:15 - 00:05:20:00
ISABELLA
So as an example, you know, it's like, Oh, you get this, this opportunity to come up, but in the past you've been burnt, so you're like very like skeptical of this situation. But it's like, I would bring things back to relationship Z because everything we're in relationship with everything, you know, um, you know, you have shitty relationships, like romantic relationships, friendships, whatever, and are you going to let that hinder you from having good experiences in the future, or are you just going to wallow in your own fucking pity?

00:05:20:15 - 00:05:41:00
ISABELLA
And that's a thing like a lot of times we're like doing it like unconsciously. Like we're literally making these projections, like, not even realizing like, Oh my God, like this person didn't do wrong. This person is literally trying to help me and I'm just walk away. I'm like a blessing. So that's like the number one thing that I feel really keeps people from like their full potential is just getting in your.

00:05:41:00 - 00:06:03:10
ISABELLA
It is the number one thing, you know, getting in your own fucking way, like just allow the universe to shower you with abundance. Hello, Please. It's all about really becoming more connected with our body and being able to trust ourselves. So it really does come back to trust the solar plexus. What you talked about in past podcasts. Well, I think Babi goes to Bali, linked that below.

00:06:04:09 - 00:06:26:08
ISABELLA
So it's. Yeah, it's really just like acknowledging that life doesn't always have to be like how it's bad. Like life can really be even more amazing than we fucking imagine. Like infinite possibilities, infinite fucking abundance. The sky's the fucking limit. But it's really not because it goes past that. We are the only one that's going to keep us from succeeding.

00:06:26:13 - 00:06:50:18
ISABELLA
You could be like, Oh, but my mom did this and there's no bitch. That's your whole pinky. That's the story in the narrative that it's keeping you from working past these things and from healing yourself and being able to attract infinite fucking abundance. Let me tell you, because this is what was keeping me, you know, and this in this narrative of scarcity that, you know, there's not enough for like I have to work super hard to be successful.

00:06:50:23 - 00:07:14:23
ISABELLA
It's all working smart, not hard. So by you listening this watching sort of word that is, you know, one of those steps is learning different ways to rewire brain, listening to positive, you know, positive content. But something that actually talk about in that podcast is like the metal mental masturbation where it's like, I fall into this too. I'm this bill is and all this information and not fucking do anything about it.

00:07:14:23 - 00:07:40:17
ISABELLA
Like what the fuck is the point? You know? So okay. Oh, oh yeah. Fearing what people think. I know. But I mean, when I was younger, I kind of always been like, I'll dont give a fuck. You know, like, I don't, I don't give a fork what anyone thinks about me this any other. But even if we don't realize it, we are we want to try to think of we are conditioned by society.

00:07:41:18 - 00:08:04:12
ISABELLA
So even if we're like not aware of it and we're like, Oh, I don't give a fuck that. Like there are parts of us that are still, you know, reacting to that narrative of like what? You know, even me, I used to be very shameful. I used to be very shameful of my job, you know, and not not typical like, oh, because I make it on the Internet kind of way.

00:08:04:17 - 00:08:25:12
ISABELLA
It was more so because of people that I dated. But it is really just like society because there's such a stigma around sex work and like, it really has like gotten a lot better. Um, just as, you know, the new paradigm rolls in and people are like, you know, ascending and stuff like that. But in reality it still is somewhat shameful, even like everyone has only fans.

00:08:25:12 - 00:08:38:21
ISABELLA
People still like how to judge it as well. As you said, everyone has the only thing I was like, I actually fucking hate that, you know, I mean, get your bag says, get your bag, bro. Like, whatever. But the fact is, like when people are like, Oh yeah, you have an onlyfans. Like, no, like this is a fucking career.

00:08:38:21 - 00:09:00:22
ISABELLA
Like, I worked my ass off and I created this amazing, fucking wonderful page pages. Hello. Go to any local and yeah, there's girls that literally just start onlyfans and think that they're going to become, you know, super successful. But there's like so much more to it. And that's why I actually have like coached girls and stuff like that because like, I just want everybody to want who are the fuck you are.

00:09:00:22 - 00:09:24:01
ISABELLA
Like, you deserve abundance. Like you deserve to. Everybody deserves to be fucking wealthy. That's the thing, you know, society makes it be like, Oh, you don't you don't deserve this. And only, you know, being rich, like, is, you know, makes you a bad person or like, there's just, like, so many, like, narratives that society create to keep you in the fear based mentality so they can continue making money off of you.

00:09:24:01 - 00:09:43:12
ISABELLA
So you continue taking a fucking loan, so you continue fucking eating off of food stamps. So you just stay in this fear based fucking mentality and consume, consume, consume instead of create, create, create. And it's warped that anyways. So yeah, fearing just fear what people think are our parents. That's like a huge one. You know, like I've said before, like I'm very grateful.

00:09:43:12 - 00:10:04:03
ISABELLA
Like my family's like very supportive of me, but we just, like, we also just like, don't talk about it, you know, and little the more that's the thing to have, like, have that come up where I'm like, Oh my God. Like what? It's somebody I just wouldn't want somebody to, like, go out. We like, do you know what she does?

00:10:04:03 - 00:10:22:03
ISABELLA
Like, because I know that would embarrass out but the end of the day, I know they love me unconditionally. And if they did this on me, that's like, that's a them problem, Not a me problem. Like really just having that, like, confidence and divinity within yourself that everything is happening for you, but also just like honoring when things actually are really fucked up, you know, that's the thing.

00:10:22:03 - 00:10:45:13
ISABELLA
Like to not be too spiritually optimistic or spiritually bypassed yourself and like, really you honor the, the pain that does like cultivate the growth within ourselves and every capacity. So. Oh, just fearing that we're not good enough. No, I was like, I started like that. So, like, don't say about getting in your way, but I really feel that that's a big part of like getting in your own way as well.

00:10:45:13 - 00:11:00:00
ISABELLA
It's just like fearing that we're not good enough. Like I said, that's something that I still deal with, you know, like as, like as far as, like, calm and like how great I feel about everything and like, all the love I have my life and opportunities. There's still in situation parts of me that's like, oh, I'm not good enough, I'm not good enough.

00:11:00:07 - 00:11:19:19
ISABELLA
You know, I'm not making as much money as this girl or, you know, is this guy really, you know, like me? Am I good enough with, like, all this shit? But, like, you are good enough, You are worthy, whole and complete exactly as you are. And being able to have that mental state is really where you're able to excel and become an even better version of yourself.

00:11:20:00 - 00:11:36:12
ISABELLA
It's all about wanting to excel out of love because the so the whole point that we're here on Earth school is to succeed, is to level up, is to play this fucking simulation video game. But of you're doing it out of fucking fear or are you just holding yourself back like what if I'm not good at this? You're probably not going to be at first.

00:11:36:12 - 00:11:53:03
ISABELLA
But that's the thing. You just keep on, keep on it. You know, there's like many things right now that I'm like studying and learning to broaden my brand and just my horizon and my life and everything. And I'm like, I don't really understand this shit, but you know what? I will. I fucking Wall could watch this in a couple of months.

00:11:53:03 - 00:12:13:04
ISABELLA
I'm going to be able to say this shit like on the back of my fucking hand. And I know that's how it is because I am fucking determined. Determination cannot be broken. If you want something enough, you will get it. There's a joke. They talk about the podcast where it's like everything is a Winston Churchill quote and that the buzzwords, ads and all Winston Churchill have no idea what it's like.

00:12:13:04 - 00:12:36:20
ISABELLA
What is the rest of it? Reconfirm your strategy. Determination cannot be broken. I don't know some shit like that. I literally have it in my locker when I was a dancer. Like even though I used to be like, on Xanax and like, so much of my pain body and, like, not living like, you know, a divine life, like I am now, like, I still, like, always knew there was like, more like for me and I sold or like a little bit more positive than the people around me.

00:12:36:20 - 00:12:56:06
ISABELLA
But people around me were all very positive. Sales not saying much, but that was always just kind of like my persona because honestly, since I was small, like I know that I was like, destined for better things and like Laura, even better things obviously, than where I am now because I know that, like, my purpose in life is to spread love and to show people that they really can be so much more than you think.

00:12:56:06 - 00:13:10:04
ISABELLA
You all can be like you like, y'all just hold on. You sold back. And I can say that because, like I said, I held myself back, you know? And there's still some some situations where I see that come up and I'm like, No, I mean, get the fuck out of my way because I'm here to get that bag.

00:13:10:04 - 00:13:36:09
ISABELLA
I'm here to fucking level up and nothing is going to fucking stop me. Let's go. So yeah, don't thing you're not going to knock like I said, but you probably are good. I okay, it's, you're going to be good enough appraisal so that you if you saw who cares. That's the one thing they say worth like oh you know all this happened and you know like don't hold that down to your past circumstances and don't all that don't be a shitty mindset.

00:13:36:10 - 00:13:55:16
ISABELLA
You know, that's the biggest thing for success for me is cultivating that mindset. And like the more I work, focus on having a more positive mindset and rewiring my brains and rewired my daily patterns and like my rituals and stuff like that, that's really like the key to success, you know, cliche And a lot of people say it, but it's like really how you spend your days.

00:13:55:16 - 00:14:18:02
ISABELLA
And that gets into our next subject, which is time allocation. A lot of people spend hours mindlessly scrolling on social media and being a social media queen. I am a clock problem. Other videos you know, like I get it, but like you're going to be consuming media and how to be intentional. You know, when I watch YouTube videos, I don't watch TV.

00:14:18:19 - 00:14:37:07
ISABELLA
I, I never owned a TV. I hadn't TV in my house before from like access, but I've never owned a TV myself. And I wasn't watching TV. You know, like in the last four years, I watched, I would say less than 20 movies, Dead fucking theory. And I loved that about me. And I just like, what the fuck the point to me anyways.

00:14:37:12 - 00:15:03:11
ISABELLA
And if I'm on social media, I'm on YouTube or whatever, I'm watching something that's going to nourish me. And once in a while, like I mentioned, like I watch like funny drag drag queen shit, but 95% of the time I'm literally watching something that's going to better me as a person, better my brand crypto, you know, shout out phi network just like to me, it's like something nourishing health, you know, fitness, something that's going to better me as a person.

00:15:03:12 - 00:15:19:02
ISABELLA
And, you know, I let people be like, How do you unwind? I was like, Because I don't live a life that I feel like I need to unwind from or I need to have a week on from. Like that's really like a big major key as well as like, live a life that you don't want to escape from, you know?

00:15:19:02 - 00:15:39:12
ISABELLA
And I understand people are watching this right now like that. Why be so far from reality? But it's really not like if it's really like a job keeping you from that could that booking job, whatever you're doing, there's another job opportunity for you. Whatever skills you have, there's another job opportunity that is going to better suit like your goal and like how you want to work as a person.

00:15:39:18 - 00:15:58:02
ISABELLA
Like I said, y'all, we all are getting in our own way because you have the ability, no matter what, to change your fucking reality and can be scary. Because let me tell you, I let go somebody out of my life that I needed to like fucking in a year and a half ago and I mentioned this before to like blessings on blessing, on blessings.

00:15:58:09 - 00:16:19:22
ISABELLA
And it will continue to be that way because literally the universe was I mean, I'm still doing my thing. Nothing bad was happening, but I wasn't excelling the way I needed to spiritually, but just everything. I really wasn't even I wasn't like physically raw. This person, they were like involved in my business and stuff like that. Like, I really the business is like this.

00:16:19:22 - 00:16:39:22
ISABELLA
You got to get rid of this person or we're not. You're not going to be able to level up the way that you want to. And now that I have, like, I literally it's insane. I'm literally like living my fucking dream life. And it's like all the other times. It's like from that state of being, Yes, I was living my dream life, but it's like the opportunities and the people and everything in my life now.

00:16:39:22 - 00:17:00:12
ISABELLA
It's like I always I couldn't imagine it because, you know, we are the creators of reality, but it's like, there's parts of me past parts of me that were like, I'm not worthy of this. I'm not worthy of like living in love and not like healing from pain, you know? And that's that's up looking at you like we're all worthy of living a life without toxicity and like, every capacity.

00:17:00:12 - 00:17:21:04
ISABELLA
So just what can do, what works for you? And I know like a tangible the time allocation like you you're booking time wisely. Do we actually have like 16 hours in a fucking day? That's a lot, you know, like and not some say like sometimes, sometimes, you know, time is a fucking to lose or something. Sometimes it's like you do lose hours that, you know, could have been beneficial.

00:17:21:04 - 00:17:36:20
ISABELLA
But at the end of the day, like, you can always like either me, I can look at how I'm using my time and optimize it. So literally it's like if you I don't have time to that time to that. Yes, you do. Yes, you fucking do. Even Gary says, actually it was all like, I regret something. I have.

00:17:36:21 - 00:17:55:09
ISABELLA
Yes. You have an extra hour time walking somewhere. I mean, people say that shit that are like how Like walking busy, like traveling, doing all these. They go, go, go. Can say that like, I'm sorry. It's true. Like you fucking are sitting online watching fucking cat videos. Hi. Hello. I still watch cat videos, but I do it in a small amount of time.

00:17:55:09 - 00:18:21:11
ISABELLA
I don't like oh, 2 hours later, you know, you're like channel like and only manage said Thank you, I love you. Go follow for free. But you don't like do don't be on it every fucking waking hour of the fucking day dude like going there. connect Busta nut do whatever you want to do and then go on to the next situation.

00:18:21:21 - 00:18:52:00
ISABELLA
So change your environment. This is so big for like success in general. Like any success in any areas of your life is like changing your environment and you not something. Oh yes, you fucking can, you can literally whether it's cleaning up your area that you live in, whether it's getting a new roommate, whether it's like literally moving to another city, it really does mean so much because it's like even scientifically and stuff like that, it's like, so say I, you're always a good example.

00:18:52:00 - 00:19:10:07
ISABELLA
Like you're a drug addict. Like when you remove yourself from your environment that like your brain is so triggered to want to use, like you're able to rewire your brain and you're not able to be triggered so much which can lead to relapse and all of that. So it's the same concept when you're talking about like fucking just like creating new patterns and habits and everything like that.

00:19:10:07 - 00:19:24:02
ISABELLA
And I remember when I first fell into my like awakening, I was living at a house with roommates and it was like a healthy environment, but it's like, I think I was there for like a month before. Yeah, I was only there for like a month. And then I moved out because they're like, kind of sick of my God, shit.

00:19:24:03 - 00:19:43:15
ISABELLA
Like all this with you. Hilarious. I mean, they weren't sick of it when I was, like, doing coke at ship. Anyway, I'm like, just growth, you know? It really was veganism of them not to anyway, like eating and all that. But it's like once I literally moved ten miles away, so, like, you know, I'm in that big a difference.

00:19:43:15 - 00:20:00:17
ISABELLA
But I was like, the people over there were so different. I was like, closer to nature. I had my own apartment with ran the like cat, and I was really able to just like, create my reality, like such a bigger capacity and have like such healthier habits because I didn't have these things like triggering me and everything like that that I was like, so used to.

00:20:00:21 - 00:20:27:10
ISABELLA
Yeah, like I was like helping by like I still was at one point, like doing drugs in this out there at the same too. Like when I quit smoking. Cigarets This is like not taking anybody for another example. Like I was so used to like going in the backyard, you know, and smoking a cigaret. But it's like I started rewiring my brain with like, or even drinking to, like, I would be like, so used to going to get beer out of the fucking fridge, but then instead, like I would get some water or get some tea and like I'd go in the backyard, but I wouldn't smoke a cigarette you know.

00:20:27:10 - 00:20:58:07
ISABELLA
So it's really about using our environment, whether changing it or not changing it and using it to create more like positive cues in our life. gamify things? Yes, we all love a game. So it's like, you know how like all those aps and stuff like that that allow you to keep track of like days or like I used to have one where it's like, yeah, it's like every little thing that I did every day could, like check off and it was like really satisfying to do that or like, I know they have like the fitness fucking rings, whatever at work.

00:20:58:12 - 00:21:19:19
ISABELLA
So like at the end of the day, it is fun to do that kind of stuff. And it is good to like celebrate ourselves that like super great for our brains as well, to just like, just be, you know, me so gamify it, baby. I still do that shit though. Like I really do, because it's also too it's like, okay, like I want to get something.

00:21:19:19 - 00:21:33:09
ISABELLA
Like, I'm going to I'm going to earn and make it a game, you know? Like if I do, if I do this in a pocket, like for one week or if I had these numbers, I do something like that, then I'm going to reward myself. Like, doesn't reward yourself and love yourself in on yourself even if you aren't hitting like your goal.

00:21:33:21 - 00:21:54:11
ISABELLA
But at the same time, like it's definitely like an amazing tool to like, fuel your own fucking flame. So what else? Okay, we got two more things. Woo woo! All falling victim to your own thoughts. That's kind of like what I was saying earlier in regards to getting in your way. You're like all of it. Just like victim to your own thoughts

00:21:54:19 - 00:22:16:09
ISABELLA
It's very much so that like we have these, like negative. A lot of us have like negative narrative in our brain, you know, from past trials and everything like that. And meditation at the end of fucking day, start meditating because you don't have time to the circle for fucking years. And I still it's a practice every day and so late and easier and that's more challenging.

00:22:16:13 - 00:22:35:11
ISABELLA
But just being able to observe my thoughts and know that like this is just a suggestion, say with feelings. You. I feel sad that in any and do sad shit, you know and I have this like crazy thoughts it doesn't mean I need to react to it or even create a narrative within itself around it literally is a lot.

00:22:35:18 - 00:22:56:21
ISABELLA
It's just they're like, Hey, hey, it does it. I mean, balls are energy, so it's like what you focus on is going to grow. So don't focus on the negative taught, allow yourself to feel the negative feelings that have the negative thoughts But don't roll them. Do not water them. Please let them be okay. Our last one referring reality to flight Flight.

00:22:56:21 - 00:23:33:01
ISABELLA
Word out I woke up a story. You also I felt very overwhelmed by all these microphones by trying to do a better on audio situation with Hi. Hello rain. This is what worked. And you know, it's like to me it's like overwhelm or burnout or anything like that. It's infrequency. I mean, everything is frequency. What it's like in reality, it's like you could have 50 things to do, Like you have three things that you need to feel more overwhelmed or burnt out by the three things because it's really how you are creating the narrative, you know, how you're framing it like I have so much to do.

00:23:33:06 - 00:23:49:18
ISABELLA
So it's like when I have this feeling come up, I literally will be like, okay, what do I really need to do though? Because it's actually telling yourself, like, I have so many things to do or I'm overwhelmed. It's just like anything negative. Like, you know, like, oh, I had depression and anxiety, you know, honoring people that do struggle.

00:23:49:19 - 00:24:07:09
ISABELLA
Mental health with high low. I have and do as well. But it's like the more I tell myself that, the more I'm going to fucking struggle. That's the thing. So it's like creating these brain when you create them negatively, then we like really like attach on the lab and it's like we're going to fall into more things like, Oh, I must be depressed because I'm doing these things.

00:24:07:09 - 00:24:29:13
ISABELLA
I must have anxiety or like ADHD and everything. So it's like we don't attach ourselves to these negative mindsets, these negative frames. We're able to just flow more abundantly and we're able to create more positive recognition within ourselves. And that's really the biggest key to success, is doing it out of love and doing it honoring yourself and that, you know, that abundance is your fucking birthright.

00:24:29:13 - 00:24:48:01
ISABELLA
So hope goes like a not too toxic rendition of that, because let me tell you, which is I love the hormones. Some of this that they say our secret is super fucking toxic and it's just not the way that I live my life. But I also am successful and will continue to succeed. And I do it out of love, not out of scarcity or out of fear.

00:24:48:09 - 00:25:05:05
ISABELLA
I do a lot of playing the motherfucking game. Maybe I'm so let's call it that. I'm breaking generational curses and you can't too. I love you so much. Thank you for tuning in. Or youtube podcast wherever you are. I appreciate you and remember you can be anything you want to be, so make it good.